One of the saddest things to realize is that someone who u thought loved u genuinely was only using u as a placeholder for their own loneliness and desire for romantic obsession and the second that idealization wore off they stopped giving af abt u completely and discarded u
A cheating man is the worst. But you know what's even worse?
It's the man who pretends to be a good man, but in reality he's a PATHOLOGICAL LIAR (who never admits) LUSTFUL, MANIPULATOR, and good at using the VICTIM CARD. The man who always plays the victim mostly has the most to hide. Ladies..REMEMBER THAT
I think ppl are genuinely scared to date & they should be. Bc we are living amongst demons, pathological liars, cheaters, manipulators, haters, ppl lying about their ethnicity !! And they’ll look you dead in the face & drain the last bit of goodness and trust you have in you.
Whenever chats about depression and suicidal ideation happen on here I always choose silence bc there’s no amount of explaining you can do to make people understand just how out of control you are when depression takes over your life.
Late night vulnerable thought:
I used to think there was something wrong with me when a friendship wouldn’t last & then I realised there is something fundamentally wrong in how ppl treat friends these days. Ppl cut off each other for the most selfish reasons, communication -