People lack accountability, then be like,
"You could've just talked to me." No, I couldn't lol. You don't listen. You deflect.
You gaslight. You make me feel like I'm the problem for bringing it up. So no, I stayed silent to protect my peace, not because l didn't want to fix it.
misogyny induced female dysphoria could’ve been such an great feminist conversation- how so many women grow up hating their bodies and wishing they were male to escape misogyny, only to be encouraged to transition rather than question the social conditions behind those feelings
ini termasuk doa ga baik, tapi sering banget ngebatin kaya "kalo hari ini ada nyawa yg harus diambil tp org itu masih ada keinginan buat hidup boleh tolong tuker sama nyawa aku aja yaallah".
depresi tu something in between remembering every single details and losing track about whatever is going on
gabisa dipilih salah satu. vicious cycle huft
When someone dies by suicide:
"Why didn't they talk to someone?" "What were they thinking?
But when someone tries to open up:
"You're overreacting." "You'll be fine." "You're too sensitive." "That's life get on with it."
Nobody likes you when you're depressed. We can talk all day about mental health and its importance, but the moment you fall into a depression; everyone starts to pull away. They see you as someone negative, a burden, a person too heavy to deal with.
as someone that's fought against chronic depression their whole life, unless you actually making an attempt to end it all I promise you no one gives af... most of the time you just soundin like a huge loser to the avg person