As someone who is autistic, the number of times guys tried to fetishize me has been insane. They act like I’m some quirky, submissive girl or treat me like I can’t think for myself as if being autistic somehow makes me a fucking child. I’m an adult woman and I want to be seen as one with all my thoughts and feelings.
It’s not all rainbows, sparkles and “fun quirks.” You wouldn’t find me cute when I’m overstimulated, when I shut down and go nonverbal or when my mood suddenly flips. The constant sensory overload, the struggle to regulate myself, the random crying when it all becomes too much or plans change unexpectedly, the daily exhaustion of masking and trying to fit in, and the sheer effort it takes to navigate a world that isn’t built for me it’s draining. It’s not easy and I wish people would stop fetishizing a disability cause that's what it is at the end of the day.!
Seeing goth girls are being treated as a man's fetish again. When many of these men used to bully goths. Now many guys just see it as a sexual thing and don't respect people's boundaries. They only see woman as mere objects for themselves to use. They don't know subcultures.
some important issues raised by women:
- r@pe
- SA/SH
- DV
- forced marriage
- human trafficking
- femicides
issues raised by men:
- girlfriend cheating
- why do men always have to pay for dates
- men rejected too much
- women get free drinks
- wife choosing to divorce and getting her half
- i paid, and she didn't sleep with me
YOU'RE A BLACK WOMEN WHO IMMIGRATED FROM TRINIDAD TO THE UNITED STATES ILLEGALLY, HAVE BUILT YOUR CAREER OFF OF THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY AND POC, AND CAME FROM NOTHING. YOU, IN NO WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM CAN RELATE TO TWO WHITE MEN WHO HAVE NEVER EVER FACED STRUGGLE IN THEIR ENTIRE LIFE.