@xoxoSugarr I think you’re defining “simp” so broadly that it just means “someone who genuinely likes you”You can be very into someone without being a simp. Interest and lack of self-respect aren’t the same thing
@chiyesoye Consent makes it voluntary, not necessarily non-dehumanizing. The objection is that sexual access can still be reduced to a commodity, even when there’s no coercion
@chiyesoye Something being casual doesn’t automatically mean every aspect of it should be treated like a commodity, the argument that it’s dehumanizing is usually about what happens when a person’s body or sexual access becomes something another person can purchase