Tell a babe you like her and you're down for something real, she will expect you to carry everything and not even reciprocate a little bit.
If he hasn't texted in four days, it means you haven't texted him in four days too.
Put in a little effort as well.
Some people call it arrogance; I call it knowing your lane without needing to block someone else’s road.
Not every attraction is a good match, and not every mismatch is an insult. You can admire someone, respect their achievements, and still recognize that your lifestyles, ambitions, values, or social circles may not align.
The real wisdom is knowing what you bring to the table and having enough self-awareness to understand what kind of table you actually belong at.
Exceptions will always exist. They’re exceptions precisely because they aren’t the rule.
The goal isn’t to rank people. It’s to know yourself well enough to stop forcing mismatched equations and calling the resulting confusion love.
1. If you stop loving me one day, will you tell me honestly or stay with me because of the children, money, comfort or what people will say?
2. What is something you did in your previous relationship that you know you were wrong for, and what did you learn from it?
3. If your family strongly dislikes me but you believe I am right for you, whose side will you take?
4. If I became financially unstable after we got married, would you still respect me, or would your feelings towards me change?
5. What would make you cheat on someone you genuinely love? And do you believe cheating can ever be forgiven?
6. If we discover that one of us cannot have children, would you stay, adopt, or eventually look outside the relationship for a child?
7. When you are angry, what is the worst version of yourself that your partner might have to deal with?
8. What are you unwilling to sacrifice for love..even if sacrificing it would save your relationship?
9. If your partner became more successful, richer or more influential than you, would you genuinely be happy for them, or would it affect how you see yourself in the relationship?
10. If we had a serious disagreement and neither of us was willing to compromise, how would you expect us to resolve it? And what would you never do to me during an argument?
Being in a healthy relationship made me understand why people become more private when they’ve found their person. It’s not because they’re hiding the relationship. It’s because they finally have something that feels so secure, genuine and peaceful that it doesn’t need to be explained or validated by anyone else. When you’re truly happy, you stop needing everyone to know about it.
Relationship has nothing to do with money. When you find the right person for you, whom you love and who loves you, you start a relationship. You grow together and enjoy your shared intimacy. Life gets better with time.
Everyone deserves love. Special moments are special because of special people.
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Tell a bro🔂
1. Learn the person you are dating.
Learn everything about them. Their fears, their flaws, their triggers, their attachment style. Do not assume you know them. Do not project what you want them to be. Study them. Because love is not just about feeling. It is about knowing. And you cannot truly love someone you have not taken the time to understand.
2. Only help to change someone who is willing to change.
You cannot fix someone who does not want to be fixed. You cannot heal someone who does not want to heal. You cannot save someone who is comfortable drowning. So stop wasting your energy on people who are not ready to grow. Your love is not a rehabilitation center. It is a partnership.
3. Apologies become noise when changes are not made.
"I'm sorry" means nothing without follow-through. It is just words. It is just a performance. If they keep apologizing for the same thing, they are not sorry. They are just hoping you will stay. Do not accept apologies that are not backed by change. Because change is the only proof that they truly care.
4. Learn to love them how they want to be loved, even if it does not make sense to you.
Your love language is not the only language. Just because something feels like love to you does not mean it feels like love to them. Pay attention. Ask questions. Learn what makes them feel seen, valued, and safe. Then do that. Even if it feels unnatural. Even if it is not your instinct. Because love is not about giving what you want to give. It is about giving what they need to receive.
5. Know when to leave.
Love is not about staying at all costs. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is walk away. When the relationship is draining you, when you have outgrown each other, when they are not showing up, when you have given all you can give—know when to leave. Not because you gave up. But because you finally chose yourself.
6. Avoid people who are unappreciative of your efforts. They will drain you.
You cannot pour into someone who does not see your effort. You cannot give to someone who does not value what you bring. They will take and take and take, and they will never be satisfied. And you will be left empty, wondering why you gave so much to someone who gave nothing back. Do not stay there. Do not stay with people who make you feel like your effort is invisible.
7. Avoid people who forget the good you do and only focus on what you did not do. They will drain you.
Some people will never be satisfied. You can give them 80%, and they will focus on the 20% you did not give. You can show up every single day, and they will remember the one day you could not. That is not love. That is entitlement. And you will exhaust yourself trying to fill a cup that has a hole at the bottom. So stop trying. Save your energy for someone who actually sees you.
Lemme burst your brain
The only reason a woman won't cheat on you is cause she has so much respect for her body
It has nothing to do with being loyal to a man
Dear men,
Take zinc in the morning
Vitamin D3 in the afternoon
Magnesium at night
Do this for 30 days then tell me how your sleep, energy, stamina, libido and Testosterone levels have improved.
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