lustre

she/her

[lustre @lustrelusts]

Sound familiar? Yeah they are all the reasons everyone preaches aren't valid when a victim comes forward. Also All the reasons the same people who preach this gave me when I came forward.
Hey fellow victims? Coming forward is a death trap. Yes, even to your "friends"

[lustre @lustrelusts]

But lustre:
Ur abuser is a good person
Uve been abused before so u must be lying
I cant believe u cuz ur abuser is my friend
Believe victims! But not u
We didnt see the abuse, so it didnt happen
They are so good to their other partners
Those who saw the abuse are TOO close to u

[lustre @lustrelusts]

Someone who blatantly supports consent violators is running another one of the events I used to run at a space ran by people who support consent violators. But quick ya’ll, run to the event and support consent violators! And tell everyone I’m a liar! Cuz FUCK VICTIMS right?

[lustre @lustrelusts]

I miss my bruised face and battered body, and being choked till I passed out.

I don't miss the non consensual emotional and physical abuse and neglect.

Could have done without the gift of trauma I still live through everyday and the kink I love having been taken away from me.

[lustre @lustrelusts]

My sweet big boy turns 5 today. Happy Birthday Otis💕

[lustre @lustrelusts]

It's here, it's here, it's HERE!!!

Thank you @ComeAsYouAreCo that was super fast and hassle free, as always!

[lustre @lustrelusts]

@Obi_Phoenix @VeryLikeaStar 😍🥰😍🥰 oh my goodness you two 🔥🔥🔥

[lustre @lustrelusts]

I just bought my first real strap on. Am I a real queer now?

[lustre @lustrelusts]

@Unruly_Truly Ok I was just making sure they weren’t pants lol cuz then I’d have to change my stance on the pants!

[lustre @lustrelusts]

*Feelings*
I gave away so much pinup/retro clothing to a friend cuz its all so big on me I can’t even alter them to make them fit

I’m happy they went to a good home,
But when I look in the mirror I still see the size 4x version of myself

This new outfit tho, it makes me happy

[lustre @lustrelusts]

@Unruly_Truly Thank yooouuuu! I hate pants! But overalls and jumpers are my new fav! They’re not pants right?

[lustre @lustrelusts]

One of my guests couldn’t make it to my party tonight so she sent me a present with her partner... best gift ever

[lustre @lustrelusts]

So this is new. Locked up while I don't have a use for it. #chastity

[lustre @lustrelusts]

I'm sure it's not just me here that needed to read this.

[Sam Dylan Finch @samdylanfinch]

I want to share what has been, in the last year or so, one of the most important things I've realized about my own trauma history — something that has been massively important for my own healing.

Let's talk about the link between people-pleasers and emotional abuse. 🧵

[lustre @lustrelusts]

It's SO disheartening to see a kink party I put my heart & soul into creating & running for years (till I was forced out by new entitled bully host of related munch) end up at a venue run by skeezy manipulative liars who are just after the $. Real sad to see my baby destroyed.

[lustre @lustrelusts]

I’m not sure what is happening here but its Very Important that you all see these little back feet on our smol bean

[lustre @lustrelusts]

Chatting with a guy i met and spent some time with in Antigua and it’s bringing me back to the most amazing vacation I’ve ever had and I have a real bad case of the travel bug 😩

[lustre @lustrelusts]

After waiting 2 yrs for my ex to go on a promised trip with me that never happened, I am on vacation & having more fun than I can describe. My lesson learned:
Dont wait for people who bring you down to step up, they wont. Dont let that stop you. That was my biggest mistake.

[lustre @lustrelusts]

In Antigua on a much needed vacation and I think this one of the prettiest places I’ve ever been

[lustre @lustrelusts]

Only in ‘murrica can ya get amazing all you can eat sushi and Chinese food plus hibachi and crab legs for $8.99.

pre vacation shopping day accross the lake was successful

Also 1 WEEK TILL MY VACATION