In UCD, Ireland a medical student was graped by another student while she was unconscious. Images and videos were shared around. She tried to get her exams postponed because of the stress of ending up pregnant and needing an abortion. She was denied. She lost her court case, and the university is trying to sue HER for costs. The Grapist is still allowed to study there. There have been protests and they are ongoing, but I am so, so tired of this. No woman, no girl, child or infant deserves this.
My husband raised my daughter since she was 2. She's 14 now and always called him "dad." Then her real father got out of prison and came back into her life. Suddenly my husband got jealous. She stopped calling him dad, started using his first name, and he completely switched up. He ignores her now, pulled out of co-signing her car, and said her "real dad" should handle it. Imagine raising a child for 12+ years just to throw her away over pride. Is love really that conditional?
Literally dated a guy for two months, embarrassed me infront of People I didn’t know , lied and deleted messages to other woman, told him don’t bring girls that you’ve had relations with in the past around me and the moment we fight, he’s running to them to talk about our issues. I started crying in my sleep, I had violent shakes too. I started losing my appetite. Had a breakdown and I woke up and told him I’m done. He gets mad and blows up my phone with I love u, let’s make it work. It’s over.
Decades ago when I a young bar going thing, the only, and I mean ONLY time a straight (male or female) went to a gay bar was when a gay invited them specifically, and all questions /observations were to be held until brunch the next day.
Is that no longer the social rule?
I told my husband about my sexual assault case. & he blamed me for it. he called me a hypocrite & told me I put myself in that position, "I knew better" & I shouldn't have been there, that I shouldn't have been drinking. We'll be divorced in July. This is why we don't report.
Women get shamed for sex. For liking sex. For not liking sex. For having too much or too little sex. For having kids. For not having kids. For aborting cells that might turn into kids. For having kids too young. For having kids too old. Just stfu man.
One of the Best advice I've ever heard is:
"Allah is not in a hurry, you are. That's why you're tired, anxious, stressed and dissapointed. Trust what was meant to be yours, will be yours. Unrush yourself."