A masculine, strong man wants to give a feminine woman a soft life.
A selfish, cowardly man wants to push a woman into the masculine so he can have a soft life.
It makes perfect sense to me that BDSM can be very appealing to some neurodivergent people. So much of vanilla dating relies on reading between the lines. Kink is often: tell me what you want, tell me what you don’t want, tell me the rules.
i dont fit in with anyone. i dont fit in with people that go to clubs or bars, i dont fit in with geeks that play pokemon and watch anime. no matter the type of person I can’t make a connection with anyone.
Unfortunately, I’m a very needy girlfriend but not like “buy me this”, “get me that” type. It’s more like hold me, kiss me, cuddle me, call me, give me all of your attention