Men are not attractive anymore and im not even talking about looks. they are so disrespectful, want princess treatment, can't communicate, can't connect emotionally, immature and more.. is a complete turn off.
Itโs men out here paying bills, sending cash apps for no reason, buying flowers, taking you on dates, genuinely being nice & making your life easierโฆ. and to think ima just settle for wyd every 5 minutes, no dates, take hours to call back, you out yo mind.
No one teaches you how to admit you might be addicted to the hope of someone. Nor how to stop being loyal to someone who isnโt emotionally equipped to receive what youโre offering. Some part of you knows that. Let me explainโฆ.
women who don't check a man's phone will still find out if he's unfaithful through their intuition and dreams. so, stop lying to a woman with strong intuition, you're only embarrassing yourself
It is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. Believe it or not
stop askin ya girl what she's doing all the time. ask her how she's feeling. if she ate. where her mind is. how she slept/how her day was. who workin' her nerves. be an outlet cause she may not have another. stop asking her what she doin' cause half the time you don't even care.
may you never again get attached to anyone who isnโt for you. may you find a love that leaves you feeling considered, respected, and gives you unconditional loyalty. a love you never have to heal from.
There's a thin line btwn someone who's emotionally unavailable & someone who just doesn't want you. And when you're emotionally invested, that line doesn't just blur, it dissolves. Bc when the heart is hungry, even breadcrumbs feel like a meal.
I'm an actual romantic. I want it all. Corny letters, long paragraphs professing ur love for me, dates, handholding, everything! I hate the normalized idea of bare minimum I want a reckless love story. I want to be loved loudly & unapologetically. None of that half-hearted energy
Marry a MAN that loves you enough to care about how his actions will effect your feelings & stop settling for immature BOYS that think you are supposed to love them after all the trauma they put you through. A real MAN knows his woman's happiness is key to a happy relationship.