Ya'll are way too comfortable with disrespecting and mistreating people and just expecting them to "get over it" without holding yourself accountable. Y'all mess up genuine people simply because your pride is too big to give a decent apology followed by corrective action and ways to fix it.
Bro to bro: When you bounce back, never forget the days you were ignored, left out, and felt alone. Use that pain to stay strong-and never let yourself go back there again.
PAY ATTENTION, check on y'all boyfriends and girlfriends! If somebody sleeping all day, distancing they self, you notice a lack in interest in everything, they barely eating, they barely sleeping, they got that “it is what it is” mindset all the time, it's something wrong!
if you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. i’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. these are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.
Men always spare women’s egos because women’s egos are very fragile.
If men were completely honest and told women the truth about themselves, like many women would never get over it or heal. They might even go insane.
This year really changed my view of life. My mental health was tested like no other. My understanding of love, friendship, and family shifted deeply, and I don’t think I’ll ever be the same.
dating someone who understands your mental health is soo important. there’s humans who will make you feel terrible for things you can't or don't know how to control yet.
Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.