@SixBrownChicks 😆😆😆😆 Report her to the police? For what? Maybe she’s gathering information to help with her divorce settlement. Clearly you don’t wanna be married either. Let her go whatever that means however that looks.
@SixBrownChicks Well, it sounds like you were unhappy for a while and kind of tolerating it. I hate that after medical condition but yeah, you should probably find your way out. Be kind to yourself and to him.
@SixBrownChicks I think you developed yourself enough to be attracted to people for more than what they can offer you and more than what they physically look like. If not, you’ll just keep repeating this over and over again.
@SixBrownChicks Sounds like he and Helen saw an opportunity and a scapegoat and ran with it. I think you might need to take more responsibility and accountability. It’s not looking good. I wish you luck 🍀
@SixBrownChicks What’s an opp? Either way, sir - there is no way to run two households. And if she had someone else that quickly- I’d be still until you can confirm you are the father. You are right, your wife and child do not have time for this nonsense and deserve more
@SixBrownChicks I am so sorry you weren’t able to see that you were his prey from the beginning. He isn’t going to change. He’s going to use you. If you think being financially broke is bad - it’s nothing compared to having your spirit shattered. Don’t wait around for that. RUN.
@SixBrownChicks Yawn. When you coupled with the man that meant he accepted your child and you accepted his mom. so now this family of four has to move forward as best you can. It’s brutal for you not to have moved after the dramatics. Meanwhile I bet Michelle is relieved
@SixBrownChicks What’s crazy is all this time you’ve been having an affair you didn’t feel the need to involve the church. There’s no need to involve the church now. Dissolve the relationship with the choir Director. Have him pay child support for your two children and move on. It is your mess
@SixBrownChicks You typed all of this and somehow still skipped taking responsibility for how you are living. Good grief. What did you expect would happen? He knew he could manipulate you. Knew you had zero loyalty as a friend. All you can do is put him out.
@SixBrownChicks Yeah um you don’t know whose baby that is. Start there. Next live somewhere you alone can afford. Set up child support for the father and stabilize your home to be a new mom of one. That’s enough for right now
@SixBrownChicks Well, you start with honesty and you file for divorced and you get the kids tested and put yourself on child support for the three kids and consider actually being the one who leaves the house. But if you can’t see your role in all this - you are bound to repeat the cycle.
@SixBrownChicks I’m not sure what he’s thinking, but I think this is a case so we see what we wanna see and believe what we want to believe. You might benefit from a reality check. Someone’s husband can’t actively be your boyfriend. No matter what they tell you. This universe has more for you.
@SixBrownChicks Set up child support. Go find yourself some self respect and do better for yourself. Street cred is foolish and fleeing. Don’t ask anyone to do better when you aren’t doing better yourself. Ho’ing has consequences.
@SixBrownChicks If you didn’t move in to enhance her life then shame on you and go somewhere and figure yourself out. Leeching is despicable. Cheating and lying are habits that you would have regardless of who it’s with.
@SixBrownChicks The one you are punishing is you. He saw the potential in you to have a head strong business partner. I hope you can see that in yourself. Sell everything and give the universe the opportunity to return life to you in bigger and better ways. Release all of this.
@SixBrownChicks You need to breathe. You need to be proud of yourself for all the change you can see in yourself. You need to respect that everyone else may or may not see you as you do. You need to spend the 20 days looking for another solution. Respect yourself and their boundaries.
@SixBrownChicks Nah you don’t. It sounds like the couple is baiting you. Maybe they have an open marriage? Maybe they are trying to turn you out and have you paying them to join them? Either way - it’s nothing you are looking for
@SixBrownChicks Insert that song . . . When a woman’s fed up. . . There ain’t nothing you can do about it. Your baby is only 3. Figure out how to coparent and move on.