im an actual romantic. i want it all. corny letters, long paragraphs, professing your love for me, PDA, everything! I hate the normolized idea of safe love. I want a reckless love story. i want to be loved loudly and unapologetically. None of that half shit.
Girl to girl:
Please learn emotional blackmail, learn gaslighting, learn manipulation and love bombing so you can tell when a man is doing that to you.
Niggas want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. Worst mindset to have with me cause I'm not auditioning for treatment I know I deserve. The minute you pursued me was the minute you knew my worth. Don't play with me.
i’m going to piss some men off with this, but a lot of long marriages in the past existed because women were financially trapped. when a woman makes her own money, the only thing a man can truly offer is how he treats her. that’s why there’s a male loneliness epidemic