@haiitsautumn I quit my first post college job after only 6 months and completely changed careers to fit my lifestyle better. Having kids changed everything for me.
If you're leaving your children in a safe environment once a month, twice a month, or even once a week so you can go out with other adults to keep your sanity, THAT IS FINE AND YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL LIKE A BAD PARENT.
My two year old gets severely hurt so much and he just shakes it off like it’s nothing. Meanwhile I’m crying my eyes out because it’s so upsetting and I feel like a bad parent 🥲🙃