@ymsox Learned themselves through solitude instead of performance feels incomplete. Solitude w/o performance becomes over-identification with thoughts. Performance without solitude becomes unconscious repetition. You need both: introspection to notice, action to practice, ppl to reflect
Shame is a turnoff. If you’re shameful of who you are, what you look like, those weird fetishes or anything else that energy controls your life and is a sign of emotional unavailability. That’s a turn off.
There’s a difference between feeling seen, and being looked at. Someone can look at you and still not truly see you. But you don’t need to be looked at in order to feel seen.
To my genuine lovers: 🥀
I just want you to know that you are seen and felt. For all you bring to the table and for all you embody, ain’t another like you. Any wise one will find you, snatch you up and never let you go. They don’t make’em like you anymore. So, don’t change.
Accountability for our actions. Every action has a equal and opposite reaction. For me it’s realizing that the choices Are mine. And the fallacy that I don’t have a choice it’s a choice itself. *applied wholistically throughout*
Tomorrow’s Pisces Full Moon asks us to let go of what we repress, hide, or cling onto out of safety or a fear of scarcity. It offers no sanctum, but rather a liminality that provides an opportunity to face the reality of our actions and relieve ourselves of ignorance.
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We met about 3 years ago after talking on Jack’d for a few weeks. The 1st night we actually decided to meet, we slept together. It was some unfamiliar passionate intense type sex that had us both a lil shaky. Shit was kind of deep.