i hate when i get so overwhelmed with what’s going on around me i start unintentionally being mean. it’s my biggest ick about myself like calm down ms. attitude.
I tell everybody not to rush into being a mom. YES! It’s the most beautiful thing and best feeling ever. BUT IT’S A LOT! Even when you have your village, it’s A LOT! No matter what, when, where, why or how YOU GOTTA SHOW UP AND BE MAMA EVERY TIME!
I immediately go silent when something upsets or hurt me. It’s a coping mechanism that I’ve been developing over time. Instead of expressing my anger or frustration, I simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private…
A girl on tik tok said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
takes a woman 2 whole years after birth to get back to feeling themselves.2 whole years for hormones to settle down and for the mental part to settle. Most relationships end in this period of time because of lack of understanding. Be kind and patient to all the new moms out here.