Kesian kan perempuan? Nak mengandung, buat IVF, amik bermacam pil hormone, sampai berat badan naik. Alih-alih orang tegur,
“Asal makin berisi? Mengandung ke? Kenapa dah gemuk sekarang? Dulu kurus comey je.. Apa? Tak mengandung lagi? Aik belum mengandung badan dah macam mak orang”
I was a full-time housewife after married. Raised my kids sampai sekolah. Husband gave me 5 figures monthly. He paid all my bills. When PKP happened everything changed.
He got 90% of pay-cut for nearly 2 years. We used only 10% of saving, because we both agreed that selagi sihat mampu kerja, kita kerja.
That’s the story of me going back to work while he’s taking care of the family 🥲
And I’m so thankful that pandemic happened, not because that I can work, but because he’s now so good at handling house chores and family.
Now we both were kinda back to old life,
My point is kalau ada rezeki, most perempuan lebih prefer jadi housewife and active dengan activity anak-anak.
And roda kehidupan ni bertukar-tukar, pray that the bottom won’t hit you.
If it does, take it and move on. Dugaan datang dengan hikmahnya.
To men, ask yourself, if something happen to you, is your preparation for your family enough?
Kalau mati takpe, kalau cacat seumur hidup? Can your family sustains without your contribution? It sounds harsh, but that’s the reality sebaiknya biarlah both husband and wife boleh sustain the family if you’re not around.
Don’t just talk when you’re alive, but think when you’re dead.
Yes, your family may got all harta and money (e.g hibah). But always remember that to start something is easy. But to sustain is very difficult.
Since pasal kes siang ikan WHI viral, I nak cakap lah sikit.
Mak mentua & suami I juga paling chill.
Tak pernah kisah I pandai siang ikan ke tak. Hahahaha! 😂🤣 Sebab masa beli kat pasar dah siap suruh siang. Benda boleh senang buat apa nak susah 😅
Tapi.. Lek ah kaum lelaki.. Dalam kalangan kaum lelaki pun ada je yang tak reti tukar tayar kereta.
So…….
Banyak betul benda nak luahkan lately ni. But at this point of my life, rasa macam takde energy put all the effort just to talk about it. Rasa macam serba salah menyusahkan orang lain dengar cerita kita. Because at the end takde siapa kisah.