my mom just told me “there is no point in arguing with someone who does not have an open mind. people with a close minded mentality will never look at all the variables being presented, just the ones that benefit them” and i’ve never heard anything more true in my life.
bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something