ya'll way too comfortable with disrespecting & mistreating people and just expecting them to"get over it" without holding yourself accountable. you mess up genuine people simply because your pride is too big to give a decent apology followed by corrective action and ways to fix it
Hating me won't heal you.
Slandering me won't save you.
Belittling me won't better you.
Trying to ruin my character won't change who you truly are.
Trying to ruin my reputation won't change the truth about γου.
Despite how much I may like you, miss you, love you, and even want to be with you, I cannot accept anymore stagnancy in my life. I crave growth, accountability, emotional maturity, respect, support, and overall genuine love. If you cannot do that, I will not entertain the situation.
Si le fallaste a tu pareja, no puedes enfadarte cada vez que dude de ti. Tienes que entender que esas inseguridades las causaste tú. Traicionar no solo rompe un acuerdo, rompe el alma del otro. No es que tu pareja sea "intensa" o te eche en cara el pasado; es que está luchando por volver a confiar en quien le enseñó a no hacerlo. Si prometiste cambiar, ten la madurez de ser paciente. No basta con decir "ya cambié", hay que demostrarlo con hechos. No le llames tóxica por necesitar seguridad; si tú sembraste la duda, a ti te toca reconstruir la certeza. Recuerda: quien dañó no pone las condiciones para sanar, solo repara y espera hasta que el amor vuelva a sentirse seguro.