Na nikama watu have been misled to understand what submission is all about! Both Men and Women. On the video she is very clear on what it is for those who will understand.
@wanguwamajani You know that meme of “angry man at home”? Most households had the mother and the children learning how to exist without angering the man of the house. Eventually, you grow up catering to the man’s emotions/feelings.
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
I remember when I used to religiously log into Twitter to have a good laugh, then carry on with my day. Nowadays it’s 10/10 depressing tweets about how we’re getting screwed over. EVERY DAY. 😭😭😭😭
If someone at work tries to micromanage you, micromanage them back.
Send them too much feedback, ask them a lot of questions, do follow ups when they go quiet or even when you know they are busy don’t let them rest.
I tell people that when you have mastered the act of contentment, people start thinking you have everything. Contentment doesn't cancel desire, it cancels desperation