That’s because black gay men have ALOT in common with their straight counterparts. They are just as unread, uneducated, and unwilling to grow like they are. Black gay men struggle with the same crippling self hatred, lack of self love, and lack emotional intelligence as they do.
The older i get, the more i realize that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you, and makes space for you in their life, it means something. time is one thing we can never get back, and people don't give it away lightly.
Gay= You’re attracted to the same gender. Nothing more. However said person of that gender presents themself(masculine or feminine) isnt relevant. It’s still gay.