7 bulan nunggu résidence permit dan bener2 ga dikasih kabar sama sekali. Kadang udh di titik mau nyerah dan muak bgt nunggu selama ini tanpa ada progress apapun. Udh ngusahain semua cara tapi tetep ga ngaruh apapun untuk mempercepat proses. Cuma bisa sabar2in diri doang😔
Never EVER feel like you’re “wasting your potential” by choosing the comfortable path. Protecting your inner peace is also a form of success. Life is too short to feel bad about yourself. Don’t be afraid to dream big, but a dream doesn’t have to be big to be worth pursuing.
Orang miskin di Indonesia lebih percaya kalo kemiskinan mereka adalah takdir dari Tuhan atau cobaan dari Tuhan, ketimbang percaya bahwa mereka sebenernya dimiskinkan oleh rezim yang inkompeten dan sistem kapitalis yang sudah mengakar.
after firing his manager in a span of 1 mo zayn posted f*ck ice, awarness ab violence against women of afghanistan, pro-lgbtq+ rights, basically fund relief for every natural disaster happening across the world, climate change awareness...like the man is free from the basments 😭
zayn has always been vocal when it comes to raising awareness about social issues, but it’s really not a coincidence that ever since he recently cut ties with that manager it’s more relentless, literally every single time he’s online 🥺
di timeline liat konten bule yg ninggalin kerjaan kantornya buat kerja di pinggir laut karena suka surfing, ada yg busking main musik, ada yg ngelukis..
gue sedih karena.... wni ga pernah dapet kesempatan buat eksplor potensialnya karena sibuk bertahan hidup tiap hari 😭
kalian tau ga, aku sering banget baca encyclopedia britannica, bahkan dulu waktu masih skripsian aku ngambil refrensi lumayan banyak dari mereka ((apalagi likuifaksi)), mereka ini ensiklopedia tertua yang masih aktif terbit, kebayang ga MALUNYA kalau mereka pun sampe kekgini??
percaya ga percaya salah satu jawabannya karena merasa sangat miskin dan merasa sangat mampu
orang miskin kebanyakan mikir mau siapapun presidennya mereka bakal tetap terus miskin, mau siapapun presidennya mereka sendiri yg harus banting tulang demi sesuap nasi, hidup mereka biasanya selalu ada di survival mode nyampe akhirnya obrolan politik tuh obrolan paling jauh yang ada di otak mereka
org2 yg terjebak di kemiskinan struktural tuh kebanyakan mengonsumsi berita ya dari sekedar yg mereka liat, they dont have a privilege untuk menguliti berita tersebut. karena balik lagi salah satunya karena akses pendidikan
ada juga org yg terlalu mampu nyampe akhirnya kebanyakan dari mereka hidup di zona nyaman ga tersentuh, mereka hidup di bubble nya sendiri. as long as zona nyaman mereka ga terusik, ga kena imbas, mereka bakal terus mikir politik is not that serious
jd jangan heran kalo ngeliat anak anak ber privilege, mengenyam pendidikan di tempat yg bagus, bahkan ada yg kuliah di FH pun masih ada yg tone deaf. biasanya juga karena ortu mereka bukan tipe org yg kritis, lingkup sosial mereka pun biasanya 11 12 seperti itu
It's okay. Manusia dan kesepian itu berdampingan. Kita cuma belum menemukan 'the one' aja. So up until then, just enjoy 😉
Yg udah nikah atau yg pacaran pun, atau yg punya prioritas pun, bisa feeling lonely, apalagi yg cm punya diri sendiri. It's okay, it's totally okay.
Keknya kenapa di indo tuh pekerjaan OB, tukang kebun, dll dianggap hina itu karna gap nya terlalu jauh. Di ausi lu OB tapi temenan sama manager ya biasa aja, karna u sebagai OB tapi kualitas hidup u LAYAK, bisa minum susu, makan telur, daging. Sewa hunian layak, kualitas air sama bagusnya dengan teman2 dari profesi lain. Sama2 punya mobil, dll~
Sedangkan di indo.... yaudah gitu dah
(punya temen import dari ausi, beliau manager brand sepatu, lakiknya kasir coffe shop. Btw lakiknya baru mau kuliah lagi per broadcastingan, karna diumur 35 tsb, tbtb pengen aja. Indon kapan yach bisa begini)
Just found out that Mozart actually learnt to play the piano from his prodigy sister who wasn’t allowed to pursue music and was forced into marriage, they even burnt all her music and all evidence of her playing, the only evidence left a letter Mozart wrote of him praising it.
Mamdani menang di new york, karena new yorker-nya sudah siap,
Mulai dari sosialis, komunis, anarkis, liberal, socdem, feminis, LGBTQ+, anti zionist, minority empowerment, serikat pekerja, warga miskin kota, artists, semua unsur progresif sudah menghegemoni kultur kota new york
I remember the first time I felt physically unattractive to my partner was when I bought something really sexy and asked him what he thought. He barely looked up from what he was doing and said “Yea! It looks nice.” And kept doing what he was doing. I felt bad. After a while - I verbalized how it made me feel.
He apologized profusely and openly explained “Babe, I thought you bought that stuff for you to feel pretty. I always think you are beautiful. I don’t need bells and whistles to find you attractive. I love you & find you sexually attractive in an old nightgown or when you haven’t even combed your hair. Nothing you did could make me NOT sexually attracted to you.”
He did put it to memory though so that anytime I do show him something new I’ve gotten - he stops what ever he is doing to give me his full attention and tell me what he thinks of the item in question.
Communication is key.
They aren’t mind readers.
Our brains work differently. It’s important to communicate when your partner has unintentionally hurt your feelings. I know this might seem like something they “should” have known but all relationship & people are different. What might seem obvious to one person might go over someone else’s head entirely. Just saying that relationships grow & strive on communication, not assumptions or they are never going to work out.
I LOVE neuroplasticity. It gives me so much strength to keep bringing a positive change in my life, to think that YES my mind is with me. My mind is not working against me, but with me. Slowly & surely, we'll overcome our challenges.
marx aja merecognize ini. makanya disebut materialisme, bukan moralisme. karena ya hampir semua didasari keadaan material. termasuk kesadaran.
"It is not the consciousness of men that determines their existence, but their social existence that determines their consciousness."
Non trovano una cura all’endometriosi ma sanno benissimo come toglierti delle costole per renderti il girovita più piccolo secondo gli standard di bellezza patriarcali.
La misoginia medica in a nutshell