One of the hardest forms of detachment is detaching from the man who STILL wants you, but cannot meet the level of partnership your soul is actually built for.
wake ittttt
i hate the concept of being unbothered sm like pls i am a red hot blooded passionate woman i will scream and yell and cry if i need to, but most importantly i will have dominion over my emotions & consciously work thru them
True alchemists know you just gotta lean into your inner chaos in order to conjure something new. This is why people stuck in chronic avoidance also suffer for prolonged periods. There is no reward for avoiding yourself.
There is something insanely romantic about finding the one person on earth whose specific brand of madness mirrors yours. Not just “we like the same films” compatibility, no. We are talking another realm.
Actual nervous system alignment + crazy alignment + skill alignment + willingness to go all the way alignment.
Same danger tolerance + same skill+ same devotion to the plot. AND THEY LOVE U TOO
Some people live 120 years and never touch that kind of aliveness.
The act itself does not move me, but In a world of 8 billion finding the other person who is the same sort of insane to do with with you is terribly romantic
men who really really really got it like that loveeeee wild girls. they love girls full of life. they love sensual beauty. don’t let creeps shame you out of your power
this is where i’m at tbh. i don’t think i do well in relationships. yes i KNOW i have been in the wrong ones but i really love living my life without having to cater to anyone’s feelings and needs
Ppl want you to cut ppl off without acknowledging the feelings that come behind it. We’re not robots. Attachment is real. Even if you’re doing it for your well being, it still hurts and the grieving process is necessary to truly move on, not pretending you’re not affected.