all women should sleep for 10 hours if they can, have afternoon siestas, ‘waste time’ with no guilt, have unproductive days of reading fiction, sunbathing and eating delicious food. every woman should relax more and allow the universe to take care of them and spoil them
one of the hardest lessons to learn is that you don’t have to work hard to receive love. you don’t have to perform to get love. you can do nothing, exist and deserve love. it’s so ingrained in some of our brains that love doesn’t come easy that we start working for it every time
Daily reminder that your brain is always going to obsess over something that was in your life for a while. So even if you think about someone, you still have probably moved on from the situation. Stop being so hard on yourself. The brain simply remembers significant people.
Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.