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fiercely feminist. dog mama. adhd. clinical social wkr. trying to be a better ally. supporter of the oxford comma and singular they. she/her. Warren2020. BLM.

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@p_cal Anyway, she used 'find my phone' and saw it was at a school (my workplace), called the office to report that someone there had 'taken' her phone, ubered across town to get it, and i had to smooth it all over with our incredible and heroic front office warriors. (Fin)

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@p_cal Once I found a wallet/phone on the metro. I googled the name, found out she lives in NYC but was on the board of an org headquartered in dc. Org working on high profile issue, mayb she's here for that. Called org to try to leave a message for her. Also sent message on fb. (1/2)

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@LuxMeaMundiAM @KayFray93812702 @jesserbnwtz When were we more "civilized?"

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@LuxMeaMundiAM @ask_aubry You phrased it as a conditional - leaver her be *because* she seems to be doing fine in several areas you feel are important. My point is that he should leave her be. Full stop. Not OPs job to police and correct women at the gym. Or anywhere. Again, full stop.

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@GinnyDeering @InterestingSci1 That's the joke

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@LuxMeaMundiAM @ask_aubry "She’s doing well & her form is good, so leave her be"
"She did not ask you, so leave her be, regardless of your assessment of her form or schedule" - fixed it for ya!

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@AndreaSimonee1 @BaddeB1tch @twhitson26 Wait. The therapist charged you for a session you showed up for, and she didn't?

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@artpopsdope @sapphicpriest @heardsstan Two, actually. Tom Hanks & Keanu Reeves. Pretty sure that's it.

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@Zinckick @ManaMightWrite @ask_aubry In other words, memories begin day 1, maybe even before.

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@Zinckick @ManaMightWrite @ask_aubry Pre-verbal memories are encoded in the body. Yrs 0-3 are most impt for 🧠 developmnt & attachmnt. After onset of spoken lang (avg @ 12ish mos) memories encode more concretely in 🧠. Separating from bio sib at 4 = lifelong trauma, esp after losing bio mom & 4 yrs of foster care.

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@JPetro49 @tyampope @emilykmay @spittykitty543 Doesn't 50/50 custody mean you don't have them 50% of the time? That's more like 12/3.5 than 24/7.

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@Lacey4health @Duchess_taylor @dustychipura Well, hired someone to work around it, anyway! Unfortunately this option was financially out of reach in my younger days. The adhd tax is real!

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@vantive_tech @AlleriaMystic @ask_aubry 💯

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@AlleriaMystic @ask_aubry Sounds to me like he flushed half her box and blamed it on her because he's a freaking abusive baby who has no business being intimate with a grown adult woman

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@expcharlee @dustychipura Omg I *wish* that was my go-to procrastination. What's that meme say? Smth like Sadly, I got the exec dysfunction and binge eating kind of adhd!

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@dustychipura I don't know where to put things so they just end up in piles on open surfaces. Working on organizing system that has A Place where each thing Belongs.

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@grey___area @Felgraf_Physics @JustSayXtian More preferable would be for innocent lives not to be used as pawns in the first place.

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@grey___area @JustSayXtian How are you going to transport a hospital's worth of patients for a 3.5 hour walk? What about young children, elderly, disabled, anyone who is not ambulatory for any reason?? Also, it's over a million ppl. That's called a stampede and is deadly even if they could walk for 3.5 hrs

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@brykanst @TNoelMiller @RightWingCope It's my assumption that this is actually exactly why they do this. Each night it's a new batch of 'prospective' employees who somehow are just never right for the job.