@vanyaix I’ve always found a woman is brightest when looking at simple things: flowers, babies, small animals, the sunset. Even better because makes you notice it
@rpntmari @jackhaute@0xdasha This is true to some extent, but in general italians have very little consumer debt. At most a mortgage, even cars are often bought cash. Just look up the stats
Everyone needs to relax. Victory is certain for any decent looking person with half a brain. Build yourself in mind body and spirit. Smile at people. Everything you want will find you when you’re living right.
Funny to think back to first “heart break” without it you'd marry your high school sweetheart
become bitch whipped simp the rest of miserable life
peak early, not take risks, or achieve dreams
Then die having led a boring life of mediocrity
Apply same logic 4 all negative
the contrast of having fun, partying, flaneuring, enjoying life should ideally motivate you to go back and work harder, achieve more, accomplish things, and these two reverberate off of each other in one big positive feedback loop
Imagine if you just simply decided exactly what kind of life you want and put your full heart & soul into it. No reservations no fears no what if no “how long”. Every single second, every single breath. What could you accomplish?
Food for thought
I watch succession and wonder...
Does my ambition grossly exceed my talent?
Am I just another delusional millennial who’s fantasies of running a massive company would make for a great HBO satire ?
Do I not take myself seriously enough…in business & life?
Has society weeded out the killer instinct in us?
Watching succession is a call to arms…
It’s a slap in the millennial face: “wake the fuck up. You’re not nearly deserving enough, ruthless enough, serious enough, or experienced enough to achieve your lofty goals. Pay your dues. Eat shit. Work hard. Kill the entitlement. Go through the ringer. Become professional. Become a predator.
Then … maybe
Nothing will zap your spirit faster than following unnecessary rules. You should be running as many literal and metaphorical red lights as possible. You are as free as you choose to be.
Had an experience recently that taught me more about myself, women, being a man etc than any kind of psychologist philosopher or playboy ever could. You only get it for real when it’s coming from you and your own life experiences - you can’t “think” you get something
Always darkest before the dawn and you never get what you want until you truly don't need it
Paradox is at the time when you need it most, you're at your most desperate. But you won't get what you need until you act like you're not desperate
Just the way of the world
Solitude is your home and foundation. It’s where you find all your life paths & derive true confidence.
Yet most sell it out for cheap dopamine hits and fake “friend” encounters.
Food. For. Thots.
when fools are down & out they immediately run towards structure
start going to church, go back to college, run back to ex gf etc. seeking comfort.
problem is it inhibits growth. don’t allow themselves to drown & come out the other side
Double down on the trenches to win.