When someone says “birthdays aren’t a big deal” to them. I immediately hear “I’ve been disappointed on my birthday too many times to count so why try”
We gotta find ways to celebrate even if it’s not lavish. Idc who disappointed you. It’s your day. You deserve to feel special.
I’m at my limit with other peoples shit so if you’re gonna text me to rant or complain and not do anything to change your situation, but never ask how I am in return leave me be, done being everyone’s person shits draining
Idk being huddled in a corner praying waiting on someone is a lot scarier than having my own gun to protect myself if need be. I’ll be damned if I wait on someone to save me ever again. And my kids will absolutely know how to protect themselves, armed and not.
How small does your dick have to be to flip off a girl for you cutting across traffic at a light and almost hitting me bc you didn’t want to look before you sped out of a parking lot
really understanding that people can only meet me as deeply as theyve met themselves has been transformative. i no longer internalize the misinterpretations of others, i no longer over explain trying to get my view across. just observe and place people in my life accordingly