you gotta be ok with losing people along the way. it’s gonna happen, whether you accept it or not. trying to hold onto dead connections is only going to slow your progress and delay your healing. let go.
“it gets better” doesn’t mean you should sit around and wait for it to get better. it means you should trust that things will get better while continuing to do your part. don’t just keep the faith, act on your faith.
being comfortable with being uncomfortable is a superpower. there is so much beauty in knowing that what unsettles you is temporary. there is so much magic in letting uncontrollable situations take their course, while you slowly make your way to spaces with more growth.
your moments of stagnancy have something to teach you. you’re not stuck, not moving, or not progressing. you are simply where you need to be until you absorb and learn everything that you need to learn about this current phase.
There’s a certain level of peace that comes with being sure about someone. Whether it’s being sure about their intentions, their role in your life, or their character… It’s freeing and comforting to know that what you see is what you get, and their actions match their words.