NEVER TRUST A MAN who gets upset over your reactions to his actions! You got mad because of what he did, and now he's mad because you reacted. Then he tries to gaslight you by saying you're always arguing or creating negativity. No, that's MANIPULATION. That's narcissistic behaviour. You don't get to hurt people and then play the VICTIM when they call you out.
This is a classic tactic, and it's toxic. He's deflecting accountability for his actions and shifting the blame onto you. He's trying to make you question your own emotions, your own sanity. But here's the thing: your feelings are valid. Your reactions are valid. If he's hurt you, it's normal to feel upset, angry, or hurt. And if he's trying to gaslight you into thinking you're overreacting or being dramatic, that's a huge red flag. Own your emotions, own your reactions, and don't let anyone make you feel guilty for feeling. You're not the one who's wrong here he's the one who messed up, and he's trying to cover it up. Call it out, and don't back down.
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i grew up walking on eggshells, recognising footsteps, tones. How to tell if someone was in a bad mood and avoid them. I learned to study people at a young age. I’m quiet and observant for a reason. I’ll read you like a book before we even speak