Over the weekend, I saw "Mai" and was struck by a scene where Sheel serves tea to guests at her daughter's funeral, sacrificing her own grieving process. This highlights the societal expectation for women to prioritize caretaking over personal emotions, which was eye-opening.
You're not where you want to be... you feel like you're supposed to be somewhere else...
Well, say you could snap your fingers and be wherever you wanted to be.
I bet you'd still feel this way... not in the right place..
People work together when it suits them. They’re loyal when it suits them. They love each other when it suits them, and they kill each other when it suits them.
You’re not where you want to be—you think you should be somewhere else. But even if you got there instantly by snapping your fingers, you’d feel the same. Why? Because you’re so focused on “what’s next” that you miss making the most of where you are.
Never regret loving someone who failed to love you back. Loving them with all your heart is a reflection of who you are. Failing to love you back shows who they are. Take pride in the fact that in today's world, where love is a luxury, you dared to love someone this way.