Perhaps this year isn't about becoming anything at all. Maybe instead, it's about slowly unbecoming all the things which no longer align with you, and finding peace in the quiet return to your authentic self.
Unpopular opinion:
I rarely meet men in real life who are as remarkable as the ones written in movies, but I constantly meet women who are far more impressive than the women movies give us.
there is genuinely no finer feeling than taking a shower, changing into oversized clothes, and crawling into a bed with fresh sheets to read a book while enjoying your favorite beverage. absolutely nothing compares to it.