question for people deeply experienced in matters of the heart: how can you tell if you’re in a ‘love takes work’ situation versus a ‘this just isn’t right’ situation?
I feel like a lot of UK music artists Americanify themselves because it’s the quickest way to commercial success + global influence but actual cultural resonance doesn’t always = highest stream count
You gotta accept your shadow side and your vices I think abstaining from too many things simultaneously spiritually castrates you and that’s why you can’t get anything meaningful done
Stop being scared. It's killing you.
If you were scared to swim, the only way to fix it was to swim.
If you were scared to ride a bike, the only way to fix it was to ride a bike.
Action eliminates fear. Always has.
your relationship with yourself cannot be built entirely around improvement. at some point, you have to become someone you are allowed to enjoy being. you get to be proud of who you are. present tense
Nothing is out of your league or too good for you. read that again!!!! The dreams, the life, the opportunities, the love, the rooms you keep admiring from afar. You are allowed to have them too. You deserve the world.
when dostoevsky said ‘i want to talk about everything with atleast one person the way i talk about things with myself’ and (as if almost conversely) when clarice lispector said ‘it is inside myself that i must create someone who will understand’