@77lsm0@maplejonesbaba wouldn’t that mean she wants to know what kind of white she looks like? she asked about ethnic background after all and not race
@momajunee@KISSOFLIFE_S2 how is this different than doing a country theme party and dressing up as country singers? is this not what 90s rappers and hiphop artists wore? I want to understand the issue but?
@Dani_31x @kchartsmaster how is that different than doing a country theme and dressing up like country singers?
is what they were wearing not what rappers in the 90s were wearing? I genuinely want to understand what the issue is
@jungleighobi@vampirerosies@usernmik is aave not a language? what’s the issue with imitating it? that’s like someone speaking british english and imitating the accent while they are sipping tea
@highqua89913727 @dookiedoomoo all I’m saying is that we don’t know why they changed their mind and making presumptions without knowing the person isn’t helpful, even when it comes from a place of worry. the point is that personal experience shouldn’t be used to assume it was bc of the partner. we don’t know
@highqua89913727 @dookiedoomoo I understand that but there are also a lot of cases where people just presume that is what is happening without actually knowing what the person thinks/wants/experiences. and that doesn’t really showcase ‘you’re allowed to do whatever’ because it is directly met with judgement