@sionjelly like when is the right time to ask now bc i ask three weeks out and they forget so i remind them and magically they have plans scheduled now or i try to send invites out closer but everyones got work that night and its just like so when am i supposed to invite you
@sionjelly no literally i was hosting a get together last friday and day of everyone i thought was coming cancelled except for one guy so we just went to dinner but like idk i thought my friends would be better this time but ig it is just a widespread thing