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[molly @maid4homework]

@itsmiss_eve My favorites though were this one metal one that was super convoluted to get on, but felt great once on.

A hybrid cage I made by combining a metal base ring with a silicone cage, or the other way around. I don't remember, but it worked great.

And my current pink one.

[molly @maid4homework]

@itsmiss_eve I've tried a lot, found a good many that worked well but I'd always go through a shame period and throw them a way and then rebuy more. So I've come up with a rule that no matter what, I keep each cage I buy so I don't go through that process again.

[C.O.R.A’S @corasottawa]

Sex work isn't glamorous or tragic. It's work. Sex isn’t inherently dangerous.
The danger in sex work comes from stigma and the impacts of criminalization (and the Nordic model), not the work itself.

Sex workers don't need saving.
They need rights.

[molly @maid4homework]

@amaraqueenm3 I think finding good sizes. Let, especially in the beginning, it is a lot of trial and error. When I first got into chastity the cages I bought were too big, which was a painful reality to accept, but now I'm experimenting more and the flat cages are too small.

[molly @maid4homework]

Quitting findom isn't easy. Like today, I have a ton of free time, and I spent it scrolling online trying to find someone to send to, but luckily I've stayed strong.
It's hard when you feel worthless not to go seeking for even a moment of worth, but it never lasts long.

[molly @maid4homework]

@MsMashaBlues I think one time I had a session with someone who liked being called madam, and I accidentally called them Goddess because it was during the heat of the moment, and I felt so bad but also my brain was mush at that point.

[molly @maid4homework]

@MsMashaBlues My brain naturally defaults to Goddess because as someone who was raised religious and left it behind, I naturally crave to worship someone. But I also wait until someone tells me how to address them because I do want to use their preferred honorific.

[molly @maid4homework]

Like, I still hope to one day find a Domme and build a genuine relationship with a power dynamic involved, but first I want to build up my self-esteem and self-worth.
Part of the reason why I was so trapped in that endless cycle was because I felt lonely and worthless.

[molly @maid4homework]

Investing in myself has been the quickest way to breaking the loop of quitting findom and then relapsing.

Like, spending money on swimming, MMA, and weightlifting lessons feel so much more productive then sending to someone who I'd never meet irl.

[Avaia @princessxavaia]

To the subs who have been made to feel that they need to earn kindness through constant giving:

You are a human before you are a submissive.

Your worth is not measured by how much you give, how much you endure, or how perfectly you meet someone else's expectations.

[molly @maid4homework]

I'd gladly spend whatever $ I could on someone I cared about and who made me feel cared for, but that is hard to find online. And, right now, the only thing I want to invest in is my self esteem.

[molly @maid4homework]

It's really hard to quit findom when you feel so alone in life, but also every findom dynamic I have had has only served to make me feel further alone, so its just this really toxic cycle of trying to quit, feeling lonely, sending, and still feeling lonely.

[molly @maid4homework]

I think the thing I keep coming back to is that I want to feel like I matter to someone, and when I think about findom mattering always equates a price tag. You could drop $1000 on someone one month, struggle the next, and suddenly there barely want to talk to you.

[Anti-Findom @Anti_findom_BR]

Findom is done almost entirely online. To quit it, you either need to cut social media and porn out of your life, or add as much friction as possible between you and your screen

✅ 79 days without findom

[molly @maid4homework]

@paylavie I remember a few years ago, I paid for a session with this couple. They used me as a stool for her to hold on to as he fucked her. It was amazing, and part way through she bit me as he was thrusting.

[molly @maid4homework]

I started keeping a kink Journal to explore my longings and insecurities.

[molly @maid4homework]

@gehorche_emmy I want things to be like a regular relationship most of the time, but like the days leading up to her going on a date, I'm not aloud to see her body or touch her in any way. I also like the idea of serving her and her friends as a maid.

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

That domme does not care about you

[molly @maid4homework]

@mayrimhay Ever since discovering pixels, I've only found enjoyment from censored content. I've also not been on a date in almost 10 years.