idk who needs to hear this, but don’t listen to those lies that come at you as you lay in bed tonight.
you are valued. you do have purpose. you are loved. you are wanted.
I hate the saying “God won’t give you more than you can handle”
God often gives us more than we can handle. He gives us battles that are too tough for us to bring us to his feet. The end of our strength is the beginning of his. There is nothing our God cannot handle.
Don’t put God on hold for a relationship. If they’re not helping you grow spiritually and pursue Him first, they’re distracting you from the greatest love you will ever have.
@allyyarid Most of you are missing the point. Self care in these situtations is the ability to not put yourself in a situation where a baby could be a possibility if it’s not what you’re ready for. Self care is being able to discern your flesh from your spirit & choosing spirit every time.
No baby is unplanned, only unwanted. Self care is not real care, it’s just selfish. The baby the mother and the father all matter. All of their lives were planned on purpose for a purpose. Period.
it saddens to me to see that a girl can look at a sunset and say "wow, God is so amazing!" yet look at herself in the mirror and say "ugh" as if God didnt create both.
if you see someone struggling in their faith & its showing through the fruits of their life - walk alongside them. don't gossip about them or condemn them. why not actually ask how they're doing? see what's going on in their life? THIS is where so many of us go wrong.