Your Papa lock your Mama outside. Mama gats fly fence enter her own home, but to you, na very cute story of tolerance and friendship🤣. Oluwa saanu 🤣😂. Many of you are hopeless cos you were raised in madness and can’t even identify rubbish when you’re standing in it.
The even bigger lesson here is that she didn’t make any corrective gesture. A person of that stature has just corrected you, you ought to show that you’ve taken on the correction with an explicit “I am sorry sir” with a smile, or with your body language. It communicates “I didn’t mean to be disrespectful”. But she staged a ‘come-back’ face instead.
There’s an education a lot of GenZs have gotten from the internet about corporate relations and comms that’s largely flawed.
“If you come late, don’t say ‘I’m sorry.’ Say ‘thank you for your patience’ instead”
“If someone points out an error in your work, don’t say ‘thank you’ or ‘I’m sorry about that’, say ‘good catch’ instead”
They sold apologies as a weakness. It’s really unfortunate. In a lot of cases, correction is a gift, a gift of context and perspective, that you can learn from. But an entire generation has been taught that correction is an attack and apologies are signs of weakness.
Came across ADEIFE ADEOYE’s post earlier and this is my take on it
AMBITION IS NOT ONE SHAPE.
VISIBILITY IS GIVEN TO LABOUR.
There is a woman flying the plane,There is a woman running the fishery,There is a woman in the lab, in the refinery, in the government house,in the ministry, in the theatre at 3am, there is a WOMAN everywhere!
Some of them are even platformed…You just don’t follow them.
VISIBILITY is its own profession alongside whatever profession you choose for yourself
The woman running the “HARD QUALIFIED JOB” you think is what qualifies her as serious…That is the JOB she chose.
She is not invisible because society silenced her, She is invisible because building an AUDIENCE is a “second” full-time job, and she did not take it.
Men are online every day doing the most unserious things imaginable. Skits, banter, nonsense. Other men are not showing up in the comments to tell them their aspirations are too small.
i actually prefer being friends with people that hold the same values as myself because why are you my friend and i’ll have to be explaining how something is obviously weird.🍂
Lemme burst your brain
The only reason a woman won't cheat on you is cause she has so much respect for her body
It has nothing to do with being loyal to a man