no one talks about the personality shift as you get older. where you no longer want to be impressive, you want to be rested. you want to be regulated and completely unavailable to anything that drains you
A Divorce Lawyer Once Said :
There is no peace at home when a woman is emotionally, mentally and financially drained and neglected by her husband. Men settle where there is peace, but women create peace only when they are treated with love, respect, and care. You can't expect a woman to build a sanctuary when her spirit is tired her heart is wounded, and her soul feels unseen.
according to physiology people who go silent when somethings upsets them or hurts them are often experiencing a coping mechanism called emotional withdrawal. 1/4