I can’t fw a guy who got a good relationship with his parents cuz if I’m complaining abt mine and he tells me “at the end of the day that’s ur family” he getting blockd
Today at work a girl said ‘not all men’ I responded but somehow always a man and she said “that man that hurt you really hurt you bad” - and I said the fact that you feel the only way I can speak out against abuse is if I was a hurt speaks volumes.
Now everyone quiet.
I thought the whole point of identifying your attachment style is to work towards becoming secure - not declaring it and expecting everyone around you to endlessly accommodate