Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker

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[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

"So often, we stand on the threshold of our deepest desires, our dreams calling out to us in the distance, only to be stopped in our tracks by the nagging whispers of inadequacy.

Do you feel it in your solar plexus?

The tumult, constantly flipping and swooping, wreaking havoc each time you hear the call?

The mind, cunning in its ways, weaves a web of doubt, convincing you that you lack the very experience, power, and knowledge required to take that audacious leap toward your goal or next level.

It simply means you've forgotten about the untapped pot of courage within the depths of your being.

This reservoir of courage and capability waits patiently for it to be stirred awake.

So, as you stand on the edge of your dreams, feeling the weight of uncertainty pressing hard against your chest, know this…

…the very fact that you dare to dream is a testament to your strength and courage.

Leap into the journey with all its twists and turns, knowing that within you lies the power to handle even the most intense doubts.

Trust in your wisdom.

Take that first step toward the beauty of those dreams, for you are more than capable of weaving a masterpiece beyond your wildest imaginings.

Go on, leap."

Excerpt from 'Soul Food'. Coming out May 2024.

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

It's suffocating at times…

The weight of uncertainty and doubt is draining at the best of times. On such days, you can't see the end of the tunnel.

Life can often bring you to moments of endless questioning of whether things will ever align as you'd hoped.

It's a relentless source of stress.

The longing for reassurance and stability can drive you to the brink of despair, yet it is precisely in these moments that your true strength flows.

But, you have to want it.

You have to pause and catch yourself, breathe, then pivot so you don't go a step too far.

It's at this juncture that the decision is made whether you'll draw on the power of the unseen or if you'll succumb to your default mode of ineffectiveness and fear.

It's here that the creative forces are gathered or dissipated.

It's your call. Make it.

From somewhere deep down, glimpse what can happen if you made the uncomfortable but powered up choice.

Think about it.

◇ Excerpt from 'Soul Food' - insights and declarations to unleash your full power and potential.

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

There it is…

The inner twinge we grapple with more often than we'd like to admit.

It's the inconvenient pushback we encounter when it's time to follow through on promises we've made to ourselves and others.

With clenched fists and a face full of determination, a war ensues, taking our peace and commitment down to a muddy pond of stagnation.

In these moments, it's left to you to recognize what you're facing.

These challenges are not obstacles to overcome but invitations to delve deeper into your essence.

As you surrender to the ebb and flow of existence, a sense of liberation and inner peace is found.

But, my friend, be aware...

...it's a journey filled with unexpected twists and turns, where vulnerability becomes your greatest strength and authenticity, your guiding light.

In letting go of resistance, you'll rediscover the magic of being alive, connected not only to yourself but to the vast tapestry of humanity and the universe itself.

This shift in your ability to see further opens up a world of possibilities, where each moment is an opportunity for growth and transformation.

So, go ahead…

…seek depth and release your resistance and dance with the symphony of life.

Excerpt from: 'Soul Food' - taking self-talk to the next-level.

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Are you there yet?...

…where the tangible and everyday feel insufficient…

…where you're yearning for something transformative…

…something that feels magical…

…for something more?

Believing in fairy tales or dismissing the laws of reality isn't the name of the game.

It's a deep desire to experience a shift that when it hits, oh my, your life reframes just like that.

Snap.

The moment sweeps you into a deeper understanding of life's mysteries without abandoning reason or practicality.

A blend of the spiritual and the substance of a rich life lands as if from nowhere, yet it's here offering new dimensions of understanding and feeling.

Listen.

Hear it.

Such moments might not be 'magic' in the fantastical sense, but their impacts are just as transformative, guiding you toward a fuller, more connected existence, ok, let's say magical, experience.

Excerpt from 'Soul Food' ~ coming late spring 2024

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

You are the CEO of your life...

Hire, fire, and promote accordingly.

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

It's tough…

Putting on the mask you wear every day to hide what's really going on inside.

Yup, tough.

The pressure to fit in or be what others expect is overwhelming.

In essence, you're living a double life, never really showing your true self...

...the self that wants to deeply breathe the fresh air of authenticity.

Deep down, it eats away, making you feel lonely, misunderstood, and confused.

Imagine, you've lived this long and never felt free or safe enough to just be.

The key?

Be honest.
Be vulnerable.
Be true to you.

Then, and only then, can you connect with others, to the magic and the peace you've seeked and wondered about.

#SoulFood

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

There you go…

Stuck in worry. Projecting sacred, creative energy into places and corners you truly don't want it to go.

Ruminating. Worrying. Praying the problem.

We've become good at it. We've taken it to new heights, internalized, externalized, and finally, weaponized

Oh, ya, we are masters of discordant energy then wonder why we're so sad, mad, disillusioned, picky, angry, lost, hopeless, envy-stricken, anxious and feel alone.

You don't have to look far.

Stop then think…

What prayer are you sending out?

Truly, what is it?

#SoulFood

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

You know you want it…

…yet for some mysterious reason you won't allow yourself to have it.

Actually, it's not as hidden as you think.

You've become an expert survivalist.

You've figured out how to…

Feed yourself daily 

Pay for the roof over your head monthly 

Put clothes on your back occasionally 

And have something somewhat purposeful, if not meaningful, to do each day.

You figured it all out like a pro and may even reach the level of ‘survivalist extraordinaire.’

Well-done.

But now you're plagued by the nagging awareness that there's more.

Something more…

… new heights to scale and other versions of you waiting to be aligned and lived.

And, in horror, you recognize what you're being called to do. To give up the familiar, the tried and true and to become more than you're now used to.

‘No thank you’, some will say.

The rest of you, take heed. As Iife holds its hand, beckoning you forward, resistance will kick in HARD.

The current you is comfortable.  It knows how to do stuff. The next level means you'll have to learn new things again.

With added responsibilities and never before seen pressures.

Didn't exactly sound like the care-free version you’ve dreamt about, eh?

It's why most won't start and a bunch bail down the road.

For the few that's still walking, high-five, because it's known that as you go, the bogeyman screams in your ear.

Ward off its spell. Get conversing with powerful others so the next level you won't slowly melt away.

Keep on, keeping on…

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Running on empty.

Feeling frazzled.

Worn out.

Touchy, annoyed, and annoying.

Stress doesn't play fair...

It creeps in, zaps your energy and steals your joy.

It messes with your mood, your health, and how you see the world.

It's a slow burn that when left unchecked will flip on your body's 'check engine light.'

But you can still pull out a win.

It's called good ol' self-care and chill-out moments.

Whether it's zoning out with a good book, taking a nature walk, or just kicking back with some tunes, these little acts of renewal can be total game-changers.

Show stress who's boss.

Reclaim your groove, one rejuvenating mojo-moment at a time.

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Don't be fooled...

Following my plans, whether daily, monthly, quarterly, or yearly is far from effortless for me.

Every day demands a recommitment to my ideal.

And there are others days when I have to sit myself down and give myself a good talking to.

Yup, it gets that serious.

But I know myself and the many ways I can scitter, scatter, dodge and run and make it all sound perfectly legit.

I've also dropped perfection from the equation, or else I'd still be stuck at the starting line.

And...

Theres the daily vibe. It shifts day to day if you're sharing space with another.

Yet, you alone are accountable for the energy you flow.

You alone are in charge of your thoughts, the actions you take, as well as those you don't.

Each day presents a new opportunity.

To do what?

That's totally up to you. 😉

Let the magic soar.

#soulfood

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Doing hard things is soul sucking at times...

...but the real boss level is sticking to the promises we make to ourselves.

Sure, bench pressing your own weight is no joke, but what's even tougher?

Getting a grip on yourself long enough to actually see life pop.

It's about finding that magic quiet spot where you can hear what your heart's really saying, having the guts to chase after what you really want, and remembering to high-five yourself for how far you've already come.

Yeah, life throws some serious curveballs, making it one tough cookie to crumble...

... but hey, we've all got that inner hero ready to break out and shape our lives the way we dream.

The big question is, are you pumped enough to go for it, or are you gonna sit this one out?

***😁 it might be an illusion but my head appears too big for my body since I've lost inches 😆🤣😂

#SoulFood

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Yes, life has two sides. Unfortunately people are trying to play it one-sided. So, to your point, go do your thing.

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Dodging the stuff you really wanna do, and could do...

...keeps you stuck in a cycle of 'meh' and quiet desperation.

Missing out on the good stuff ‘cause you're dragging your feet leads to a lifetime of regret.

Then you’ll look back and wonder why you didn’t just jump in and let life unfold.

Waiting for something to change?

It will but not the way you’ll like, want or appreciate

You gotta be the one to shake things up.

The alternative?

Keep on wandering, wondering, and feeling lost in your own story.

Step up and chase your dreams.

Take those chances.

Llve a little louder.

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Ah, rest...

That elusive state we seem to have cast aside in our endless quest to do more, caffeinate more, and push our poor adrenals to the edge of mutiny.

It's become almost mythical, hasn't it?

Those lucky souls who manage a full night's sleep are akin to unicorns, parading around with their well-rested glow, while the rest of us gaze in wonder, half-convinced they're employing some sort of dark magic.

Sleep, in the chaos of adulthood, has turned into a luxury that outshines even the most exhilarating pleasures.

It's the ultimate form of self-care, a silent rebellion against a society hell-bent on keeping us wired and constantly on the go.

It’s time for a small but mighty revolution...

...hail to the power of rest.

It's not about laziness; it's about reclaiming your right...

☆ to pause,
☆ to breathe,
☆ to unplug...

...from the endless cycle of consumption and stimulation.

It’s about finding your way back to a state of balance, where your mind and body can heal and rejuvenate.

Go ahead, start your own private rebellion.

• Hit the pause button.
• Take that deep breath.
• Sink into relaxation.
• Let sleep be your protest against the world's insistence on perpetual motion.

It’s not just about catching z's. It’s about choosing to be truly alive.

#soulfood

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

When the time comes to make your next big move, your inner self starts to shift...

You vibrate differently.

What used to excite now irritates...

What once amazed you now goes unnoticed.

As pressure and tension builds, you find yourself clinging to the familiar...

...mistaking it for safety and comfort, even though deep down you KNOW what you gotta do.

The calling to take action gets buried under distractions and perhaps a drink or two to quell the feeling of unrest and discomfort.

No matter how much you try to avoid it, the truth remains, waiting to be acknowledged.

Then the real question becomes:

How long can you keep pretending everything is fine?

How far can you run?...

Or how long can you play possum?

How long?

Tick tock, says the clock...

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

Lynn, thank you for your comment. It's my hope that my experience can inspire those travelling similar roads.

[Lynn Sherard-Stuhr, BSN, RN @BoostSelfWorth]

@maker_mojo You’ve done yourself a great service and we can all learn from your experience!

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

When those old painful feelings get triggered, our instincts kick in...

Like a reflex we can't control.

Some of us freeze, others fight or flee, and then there are those, like me, who just want to hide from it all.🏃🏻

I'd retreat into myself when things got tough, hoping to shield myself from the chaos outside.

But I realized that hiding was only a temporary fix, and it was time to face the demons I'd been avoiding.

Letting go of the disappearing act was a journey in itself.

It meant bravely confronting life-long fears, acknowledging the hurt, and understanding that being vulnerable doesn't mean being weak.

Real strength lies in being able to face the darkness and find your way back to the light..

Finding the way back to yourself.

It was the best, most empowering lesson learned.

Now, I'm reaching back and helping others leave their darkness and disabling habits behind.

Hello world!

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

I was slightly tempted...

The old Pamela would have instantly pulled out her credit card and ordered one of the new digital planners taking social by storm..

They can be accessed across your various devices keeping you organized and on top of your life.

It will work beautifully for the 1 - 2% buying them.

The others, which I was once part of, would slowly let it slide away, abandoning yet another wished for fix. Just one more thing on the heap of things that 'didn't work'.

It, like the plethora of silver bullets that...

• Didn't fix focus
• Didn't trigger a vision, plan or system
• Didn't onboard a powerful 'why'
• Didn't solve dysregulation, lack of control and discipline
• Didn't hush the inner voice waiting to scream you back into submission
• Didn't see you as worthy or an achiever

..and that's just to start.

I used to think I could circumvent my real issues by spending money and wasting time on new shiny things that seduced me into an ever expanding rabitt hole.

Madness.

Then I stopped, turned around, got real, and found accountability.

I'm sure these tools are cool. They appear to be ingenious. However, first ask yourself...

If you're ready for it?

If you've truly sorted yourself out, a daily index card will do. 😉

Kudos to the creators of these products, tho. Impressive!

[Pamela Sylvan | Mojomaker @maker_mojo]

@Tim_Denning Send. Thnx,Tim!