Habang nagsasalita si brader, si sisteraka nag-iisip na ng kanyang eksena. Nakakatakot ang hitsura ni Pia. Almost motionless, but look at the movement of the eyes. Parang may nagbabadyang ubos sa dako pa roon.
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
Daily reminder that your brain is always going to obsess over something that was in your life for a while. So even if you think about someone, you still have probably moved on from the situation. Stop being so hard on yourself. The brain simply remembers significant people.
Maybe this is controversial, but 14 years feels like an entire lifetime.
A degree.
A career.
A business.
A child growing into a teenager.
You can build so much in 14 years.
So when I hear that a 14-year relationship ended, I don't immediately think about who's right or wrong.
I think about the amount of life that was shared.
How do you walk away from that?