@kaalijennerrr Yeah it's silly that a lot of muslim men advocate for a husbands rights, and neglect the wife's rights. I agree that men go through less abuse than women, and tbh that's why we should educate women on their rights and their husbands rights.
@kaalijennerrr Well thats just being uneducated, those men that label anything and anyone feminists, usually don't even know what feminism is lol. A women can ask for whatever she wants as mehr, if the man can't afford it or doesn't want to pay that, he can simply say no :)
@kaalijennerrr Sometimes, the woman is the one who gets married to a non practicing muslim, and gets found in situation like those. I don't think that's the core issue.
No matter what we shouldn't turn back to an ideology other than islam.
@kaalijennerrr In cases like that, usually where I live there are numerous masjid counsellors that find solution for women trapped in those situations. I just don't think muslim women should ever turn to feminism
@kaalijennerrr I agree that a lot of men take advantage of women, but unfortunately it could be said the other way around. (not in matters of domestic abuse since that's rare to be the other way around tbh)
@kaalijennerrr I see where you're coming from however the same thing could be said about muslim women. Some women don't care for their husbands opinion on how they dress or where they go or even who they bring in the house. Feminism has corrupted more than it has benefited us muslim women.
@kaalijennerrr I understand where you’re coming from, but we never needed feminism to not be in an abusive marriages. Our islamic rights already do that for us. At the end of the day feminism stays an ideology that we shouldn’t follow as muslims.
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Mishkat al-Masabih 3252, 3253
"The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Whoever gives up telling lies in support of a false claim, a palace will be built for him in the outskirts of Paradise. Whoever gives up argument when he is in the right, a palace will be built from him in the middle (of Paradise)...
@rosebintyahya To expand your knowledge on islam, I suggest for you to do some research on the 4 madahib, and chose one. Doing so will make it easier for you to follow one opinion on matters that are differed upon. It will also facilitate applying fiqh into your daily life <3
@rosebintyahya Islam is so fascinating, it answers every single question you have (ex: way of eating, how to rule a country, marriage etc), and the way there's always prove for every single statement. Islam is so simple, yet you never run of out things to learn subhanAllah.