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a victim's trauma is not your's

[mala @malaplanet]

@NuiggursNeed2Dy @MarisaMaryMonty @pearlythingz excuses aren’t for thoughts and feelings that have been explained and studied by psychologists.

[mala @malaplanet]

@hanu_ksm these people think they're just attacking women, but they just further silence, harm, and delegitimize male victims. its very strong of you to share and stand up against these people. ❤️

[Saturn Shuttle @Saturn_Shuttle]

"No one will be forced to watch it" except it will be all over the news and social media for weeks so in effect, you will be forced to watch it.

[Joakim 🌹🇳🇴🇪🇺 @joakial_]

A nation that upholds the death penalty in the 21st century cannot be considered civilized.

[mala @malaplanet]

@matt13242 @ChrisHuck @UN @UNHumanRights then you are okay with the children and victims who wont come forward in fear of escalation and loss
or rapists who will kill victims because they already committed a crime worth death, and wont lose anything if caught killing. they can erase the voice and get the same punishment

[United Nations @UN]

The death penalty does little to deter crime or deliver justice for victims.

It has no place in the 21st century and should be abolished.

More from @UNHumanRights on Saturday’s World Day against the Death Penalty: https://t.co/6g5ectJCmu

[mala @malaplanet]

@DewNotDrew i believe these come from a psychology textbook, and have nothing to do with gender!

[Sweetchi @nininoises]

@woman0fwise yeah or it could be actual victims who trauma-bonded with their abusers. I get we love hating on men but how about we don't immediately jump to that conclusion & instead treat these posts as true unless they're proven to be false?? this could be victims reaching out for help.

[Brook @Mcsuck1t]

This is a normal response to being raped and shaming this person for how they feel about it when they're very clearly asking for help is frankly revolting of you.
It's always support the victims until they display signs of general unwellness caused by the rapist.

[mala @malaplanet]

@very_veri_fied @insignier @postmanShmerg please enlighten me on what my insides are? i explained what trauma bonding was. i didnt come up with this concept, i didnt base my argument off of any real life experience ive had. i used the definition and characteristics of a trauma bond.

[mala @malaplanet]

@JohnJohnso9kkm @BearMolestor @pearlythingz i dont know why you would say this? this has nothing to do with gender, and just hurts male victims. trauma responses dont have anything to do with gender and happen to men as well.

[AshleyTheDuchess @TheAshenDuchess]

This is a common psychological trauma response to being raped btw. Its your brain struggling to reclaim and recontextualize what happened to you in a way that puts you back in control and make it hurt less
Source: Im a rape victim who also felt like this my whole childhood

[Lo @ladyylazarvs]

men treat rape the way they treat a robbery and not like the psychologically scarring event it actually is. they have 0 understanding of the human psyche and expect women to respond the same way (that is exclusively becoming paranoid or suicidal or smth). anyone who has been-

[mala @malaplanet]

no one will be forced to, but when there is such high stakes and sensationalism around it, kids, teenagers, and mentally disturbed people will.

[Greg 🇺🇸 ✭ @GregB_TX]

The livestreamed execution of Nidal Hasan (wheelchair bound after his apprehension).

Based on current U.S. Army protocols for a firing squad, this is the best representation until the Army confirms the layout they will use.

BTW...no one will be forced to watch this.

[kev 🕸 @crnbie]

this is actually a very normal trauma response btw stop shaming people for how they cope

[mala @malaplanet]

@very_veri_fied @insignier @postmanShmerg because it is a psychological thing.

the post is about someone obviously experiencing trauma bonding, so that’s why i’m talking about it. we don’t measure which is most common or normal because that’s how stigmatism continues. it depends on the person and case

[mala @malaplanet]

@pottyskippens @pearlythingz as you are taking out your wallet. he takes the wallet, and then you

[mala @malaplanet]

@very_veri_fied @insignier @postmanShmerg no. trauma bonds are a known thing the brain does. you can look it up all you want. just like some people turn to anger, some to substances, everybody has a brain that copes and responds differently

[mala @malaplanet]

@Cr7Godbrand a scripted consensual sexual act and rape are two different things. you're fucked if you cant see that

[mala @malaplanet]

typically, you dont consult a doctor before getting a tattoo or drinking. and when you are denied a tattoo, you dont experience day-to-day social struggles that result in depression. doctors know what they are doing

[NOBUNAGA🇯🇵🏯_夏樹蒼依 @japan_nobunaga]

You cannot consent to a tattoo at 13.

You cannot drink at 18.

You cannot rent a car until 21 or 25 in most of America.

But somehow a 13-year-old can "consent" to a lifetime of cross-sex hormones and irreversible surgery?

The adults who built this pipeline should be ashamed.

They know.