IM STILL ALIVE GUYS revamping my room and set up and planning to buy better stuff for streaming eventually...also jus been feeling a little manic so been avoiding social media for my own health :3
besides even the abuse apology angle I don’t think it’s good for people with BPD to see others saying “no but if they actually loved you you wouldn’t feel that way” bc I think that fails them. people with BPD shouldn’t have to have another argument thrown onto the pile
incredibly concerning the amount of abuse apologism I’ve seen lately when it comes to talking about BPD with people arguing “well if the partner was good enough/actually cared about you then you wouldn’t split or have symptoms or ever feel abandoned and lash out”
Hot take! But if you're an anti and have horrible moral ocd, I honestly believe you shouldn't yumeship with characters you find immoral, especially if you're going to flip when people tell you that character did terrible things.
Yes, this is about the randy marsh yumeshipper!
Im so tired of seeing people with the "Oh woe is me, im always the victim and can do no wrong ever" mentality. Like bro ypu can be wrong... it is okay... sometimes you fuck up... that is okay. Just learn from it and do better ffs