Just to put into perspective of how absent my dad has been as I’ve gotten older… he asked if I have ever had a pedicure or nails done (mine are always done) but bc he’s dating some chick who will do it for free now he wants to get me one. I can’t
I remember when I was like 11 my dad told me boys will like me best if I was never heavier than 120lbs….and I wonder why I have such horrible coping mechanisms..