Marriage exposes character. It does not build it.
The habits you hide while dating come out after marriage.
The anger, the selfishness, the pride, the kindness too.
Marriage does not magically change people.
It removes the mask.
That is why you must watch behavior, not promises.
Listen to patterns, not sweet words.
Marriage only shows what was already there.
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"Avoid friends that put pressure on you to monetize your relationship. Sometimes you know the guy you are seeing is a good person, but because you have a circle of very hungry and senseless friends, they will make you lose good men." - Stella Abiodun.