this is what happens when ur definition of love is that its a feeling btw. love is an active verb. liking is a state of feeling. infatuation and desire is a state of feeling but love, more than anything else is a choice. ure not supposed to always “feel” the love +
whenever my parents yelled at me i would stand absolutely perfectly still and stare at one spot on the wall or floor blinking as little as possible and if you do that long enough your vision starts to duplicate the patch at the center of your vision across the whole image
This girl still instinctively pulls her arms so tightly into her chest it hurts, and goes mute and glassy eyed to make herself as small and inoffensive as possible in the face of confrontation, so that the perceived threat will maybe feel bad and calm down, the old fashioned way.
odio la narrativa de “nadie va a venir a salvarte” porque actually! they will. Nos vendieron tanto el cuento del individualismo y de no necesitar a nadie cuando el precepto humano más simple y real es que “it takes a village” y estén seguros que esa village va a venir a salvarnos