@enyasphere@RollingStone unfortunately u can have the most reassuring partner but that won’t automatically heal someone who deals with insecurities and self sabotaging
@ValerieC_TX@MadelaineLucyH How do you interpret that quote? Bc yes unfortunately that is what many survivors who didn’t fight back think to themselves after it happens. That doesn’t make it true, but it’s a normal response. Freezing doesnt = consent and it takes time to process the situation and the regret
@ValerieC_TX@MadelaineLucyH Where the FUCK did they say anything about rape victims who fight back? Survivors have different experiences and your attempt shut down this convo about rape victims who did not fight back IS THE ACTUAL SPIT IN THE FUCKING FACE!!!