I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into a person with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.
Unhealed trauma makes you hold onto people and tolerate a lot of sh*t you don't deserve because you don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life – no matter how much you love them.
You’d think after 7 tattoos I’d remember to wash a newbie before bed, but here I am getting all snuggled up and then having to get out of bed to wash it 🤦🏼♀️