Unfortunately, sometimes you have to get a little mean just to remind people you’re not the one to play with. Everybody doesn’t respect kindness, and some people will keep testing you as long as you keep being nice about it. I can have a good heart and still have boundaries. I can love you and still check you. And I can be kind without allowing anybody to disrespect me. If being nice makes you think I’m weak, eventually you’re going to meet the version of me that makes you understand the difference.
People are gonna slowly realize more & more you cannot budget your way out if the current state of the economy no matter how much fat you try to cut.
I don’t tell nobody what’s going on with me anymore ever since I learned people talk and clown behind your back , idc how close you think you are to people , DO NOT share your business, getting though it on your own is hard at first but it’s a 10/10 in the end .
Growing older has made me less interested in proving that I can tolerate everything. Endurance is useful, but so is knowing when something no longer deserves your energy.