You win some. You lose some. At the end of the day, all that matters is YOU and YOUR happiness. Don’t let anyone take that from you. You have the power. Invest in your mind, body, and soul. This is YOUR life. Do what makes YOU happy.
One of the most confusing types of relationships you’ll ever find yourself in is with someone who only treats you well when they feel like they’re losing you. The kind of person who suddenly becomes consistent, affectionate, emotionally available, expressive, and sweet but only when you’re pulling away, when you’re fed up, when you’ve mentally or emotionally detached. And the moment you soften again & forgive them, let them back in, give the relationship another shot, they go right back to their usual programming. Cold, distant, emotionally unavailable, half present, unenthusiastic, apathetic, or just mean.
If a woman acts like a baby in a relationship it means that she's with a MAN. And if a woman acts like a mother in a relationship, it means she's with a BOY.
Meeting your soulmate at the wrong time is one thing. But meeting someone who felt like a soulmate and turned out to be a lesson. that's a different kinda pain.